You know how people always say that a beautiful person can become ugly if they have a bad attitude, and a less attractive person can become more attractive if they have a great personality? Well, I kind of experienced that this weekend. I hung out with one of my guy friends, with whom there is an admitted attraction, but he was so mean to me, and somewhat disrespectful. He didn’t trust anything I said, whether it was where a local place to eat was, or which movie theatre we were supposed to go into. That really makes me mad. Then he had the nerve to tell me to shut up. He was just whiny and not nice the whole time. He crossed the line, and thinking back on past times where we’ve hung out, I realized that he’s never really been that nice. Oh well.
Then there’s the issue of giving a guy your phone number. If you give him your number, aren’t you supposed to wait for him to call? That’s what I always thought, but is that playing games? I hate playing games. If it were up to me, I’d call whenever I felt like it…which now that I think about it, maybe I should. And not to sound like a stalker, but if I want to hang out over the weekend, why shouldn’t I call him? I don’t understand the whole dating scene…I wish I could just be truthful and say “hey I’m interested in getting to know you better, wanna hang out” but I’m afraid of what everyone is…getting rejected. Ah, who knows…maybe I will call, I’ll keep you updated.
If you have an opinion, let me know.
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