Discovery??

This could be a discovery...maybe I can't find a guy to date because a lot my friends are guys, and when I'm out with them no other guys approach me??? Or maybe because I don't give off the "come-over-here-and-talk-to-me-cuz-I'm-fun-and-funny-and-care-free" vibe (I've been told that before...I can be a bit unapproachable). Or maybe guys are just flat intimidated by me (that is, of course, my favorite because its always nice to think that you are soo charming, intelligent, and beautiful that guys just can't imagine that a girl like you could possible be interested in a guy like them ;-) ). But what is it really?

I'm surrounded by all these beautiful ladies (my girls) who have NO problems finding guys to ask them on dates, in fact, they epitomize one of my male friend's "Stable Theory" for women. Then there's me. Perhaps I am too picky or too critical or too hopeless (read: given up on finding a guy), but who really knows. I'd be interested in knowing what my boys (or girls) have to say on the subject...so if you're reading this, give me your two cents, I won't be hurt...be honest.

In any case, I'm going to try, like I said yesterday, to stop looking so that perhaps in my "unsearch" I'll bump into an interesting guy. Who knows??