Dates, Work, and Bars

So it's been a while...almost 10 days, and I apologize. Life has definitely been interesting since then, and let me tell you about it...

First off, I have been on two lovely dates (and yes, courtesy of online dating). I have to admit that I thought it was completely strange at first...who meets people online, right? But I've heard soo many stories of people dating, getting engaged, and even getting married to people they met on various dating websites, so it's kind of hard not to give it a try. If you think about it, it's just like a bar, but online and minus the alcohol (well, unless you're drinking at home while online, that is). Its turned out well for me so far. Again, I'll keep you updated.

Secondly, work...what to say about it. It's dealt me some blows as of late, but I have struck back fiercely (in the kindest way, of course), stepping up my A game and really showing them what this chick is made of. I'm the type of person who doesn't take one persons opinion as gospel, instead I ask around, research, check it out myself to see if what they say if true (the Berean in me). So I was told something about my ability to get tasks accomplished, which stung, frankly. I like to think I am good at getting things done in a timely fashion, but it is different and hard when the people you're trying to motivate have zero interest in doing what you ask. But I had to take a step back and ask some others what they thought of me on the subject. All others contradicted what I was initially told, which is comforting and rather disturbing all at the same time. Its a game of perception in this business and in order to succeed I need people to perceive me as I truly am...diligent, highly motivated, intelligent, and driven. That's the challenge. In any case, its going slightly better now, and I eagerly look forward to every weekend and holiday. I'll be glad when I don't have this tight tense feeling in my chest anymore.

And lastly, my roomie and I have decided to check out local bars and restaurants once a week. We went to our favorite last night (although it is the first), but we decided that this is our neighborhood bar now. There is a bar downstairs from our apartment, but it is sort of a dive, so we steer clear. Although the manager and bouncer stopped us yesterday on our way home, recognized us, and told us we should come drink there since we live so close. I think we decided on maybe a pre-party drink there, then on to the real parties. At least we know them now, and they'll look out for us.

In any case, that's been my week so far. I'll keep you updated on all related topics as they unfold, and as usual, I'd love to hear your thoughts, comments, ideas on any of these topics.