So a guy friend of mine last night told me that a woman attracts the kind of guys for which she projects a similar image. Then proceeded to tell me that I'm not a high maintenance sort of girl, I don't get all dolled up in make-up, but I have a cute face and a great personality.
That's NOT what any girl wants to hear!
Guys, help me out here, what exactly does that mean? Maybe he just doesn't find me sexy...Hmmmm.
That brings me back to this key idea: I'm exceptional good at making male friends, but terrible at finding a boyfriend.
I like having male friends, don't get me wrong. It's way better than having decpetive coniving female friends (but my girlfriends are definitely not like that, they are super cool!). But it bring me to the point: Is there something wrong with being a low maintenance, confident, cute female?
My friend also eluded to the fact that I could be more confident more often because I have all this great stuff going on in my life (great job, great personality, cute face), but I guess I'm not always as confident as I could be. But, keep in mind, this is also coming from a guy that some people don't like because they think he's over-confident and cocky.
I don't know, I'm sure there's a delicate balance hidden in there somewhere...I just have to find it.
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