September 04, 2006

Closeness and Second Dates

Two things...

1) There are totally some guys out there that have something about them that makes you want to be close to them. I was hanging out with a couple guy friends of mine tonight, and there is one (who is also my dancing buddy) that makes me want to be close to him...to stand close, dance close, place a hand on him, whatever. It's weird but there are other guys who have the same effect on me...I wonder if it's pheromones...?

2) I think I discovered what my problem is...I'm pretty good at first dates when I have them, but I must be terrible at second dates. I go on lots of first and second dates, but never third dates. Is there something I should know about the second date?? Was I absent the day some crucial rule was taught about second dates?? I mean, we always chit chat it up nicey nicey style, but am I supposed to openly talk about where we go from here? Am I supposed to kiss him? Are we supposed to do something adventurous? Am I supposed to let him teach me something? I have no idea what is going wrong here! As always, if any of you have any tips, please let me know...I'm interested.

Oh, and Happy Labor Day!

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