September 03, 2006

To Pursue or Not To Pursue

Hello my beautiful people. I know it has been a long time since I've written (over a month), but I have been incredibly crazed with work. When I was hanging out with a friend a couple weeks ago our conversation made me realize how dull and uneventful my life has gotten :( I have spend soo much time working that I didn't learn to surf like I promised myself I would this year (although there is still time), I haven't been running or hiking or on any exciting adventures.

Anyway, I thought I'd catch you all up to date. I have spent some time with my adorable yet older friend and confirmed that we are...yes...just friends. It still makes me sad, but like I said before making new friends is always good. And that just means there is someone out there more right for me. But the whole situation has made me think...

Is it wrong for a woman to want to be pursued? I didn't call a guy I went on a date with a while back for about two weeks because I wanted to see if he would call. He didn't. Does that mean he's not interested or was he doing the same thing? I don't always want to be the one always pursuing, there's got to be a little back and forth, doesn't there? Someone help me out here, I'd love to get your thoughts.

Ah well, that's New York I suppose. It's so difficult to meet good guys here. ;-/

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